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This help was no bargain

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By Donna Acquaviva

A few weeks ago, this newspaper reported the happy news that yard sale season is beginning and advised that you can read its classified ads to find them.

So now here’s some advice for those of you who’ll be offering such sales. There are people out there just waiting for you to list your sale so they can swoop in and do their thing. Last fall, I was a victim.

As “Monk,” the neurotic police detective, likes to say, “Here’s what happened.”

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Acquaviva is a writer who lives in Roanoke. She no longer has a yard, so no sales. She is grateful.

Prude or prudent?

By KATHLEEN PARKER

They lost me at the word “women.”

As so often happens with contemporary debate, arguments being proffered in support of allowing teenagers as young as 15 (and possibly younger) to buy the “morning-after pill” without adult supervision are false on their premise.

Here’s an experiment to demonstrate.

Question 1: Do you think that women should have access to Plan B, also known as the morning-after pill, to be used at their own discretion? Yes!

Question 2: Do you think that girls as young as 11 or 12 should be able to buy the morning-after pill without any adult supervision? Didn’t think so.

Question 3: If you answered yes to Question 2, are you a parent? Didn’t think so.

Perhaps a few parents answered yes to Question 3, but I suspect not many. Yet, repeatedly in the past several days, we’ve heard the argument that any interference with the over-the-counter sale of Plan B to any female of any age is blocking a woman’s right to self-determination. Fifteen-year-olds, where the limit is currently set, are girls, not women. And female parts do not a woman make any more than a correspondingly developed male makes the proud possessor a man.

The debate arose after a federal judge last month ordered that the government remove all obstacles to over-the-counter sales of Plan B. As it stands, children as young as 15 can buy the drug without a prescription or parental knowledge. They do have to show identification proving they are 15, which, as critics of such restrictions have pointed out, is problematic for many teens.

Apparently the Obama administration agrees that young girls shouldn’t use so serious a drug, even though proclaimed medically “safe,” without adult supervision. The Justice Department has given notice that it will appeal the judge’s decision, a move that could potentially backfire and, in fact, remove all age barriers.

The dominant question is legitimate: Even if we would prefer that girls not be sexually active so early in life, wouldn’t we rather they block a pregnancy before it happens than wait and face the worse prospect of abortion?

The pros are obvious: Plan B, if taken within three days of unprotected sex, greatly reduces the chance of pregnancy. If a child waits too long to take the pill, however, a fertilized egg could reach the uterine wall and become implanted, after which the drug is useless.

You see how the word “child” keeps getting in the way.

There’s no point debating whether such young girls should be sexually active. Obviously, given the potential consequences, both physical and psychological, the answer is no. Just as obvious, our culture says quite the opposite: As long as there’s an exit, whether abortion or Plan B, what’s the incentive to await mere maturity?

Advocates for lifting age limits on Plan B, including Planned Parenthood President Cecile Richards, insist that the pill is universally safe and, therefore, all age barriers should be dropped. From a strictly utilitarian viewpoint, this may be well-advised. But is science the only determining factor when it comes to the well-being of our children? Even President Obama, who once boasted that his policies would be based on science and not emotion, has parental qualms about children buying serious drugs to treat a condition that has deeply psychological underpinnings.

What about the right of parents to protect their children? A 15-year-old can’t get Tylenol at school without parental permission, but we have no hesitation about children taking a far more serious drug without oversight?

These are fair questions that deserve more than passing scrutiny — or indictments of prudishness. A Slate headline about the controversy goes: “The Politics of Prude.” More to the point: The slippery slope away from parental autonomy is no paranoid delusion. Whatever parents may do to try to delay the ruin of childhood innocence, the culture says otherwise: Have sex, take a pill, don’t tell mom.

Where, finally, do we draw the increasingly blurred line for childhood?

Americans may disagree about what is sexually appropriate for their children. And everyone surely wishes to prevent children from having babies. But public policy should be aimed at involving rather than marginalizing parents.

To say that this controversy is strictly political is no argument against debate. Politics is the debate about the role of government in our lives. And the debate about Plan B is fundamentally about whether government or parents have ultimate authority over their children’s well-being.

 Parker is a columnist with the Washington Post Writers Group.

 

 

 

Survey says! I’m a better man

by Ken Conklin

My resolution this year is to be a “better man.” I committed to this objective in January because I felt I had several basic areas I needed to work on, mainly on the chivalry front.

Eight years ago, when I moved to Southwest Virginia, my wife informed me that there were many legendary regional etiquette traits here we could possibly learn from and incorporate into our everyday manners. I believe this was her usual very polite way of telling me there were many things I could work on that would help smooth out my rough edges. I do not know how she knows this stuff, but she does. I have noticed, however, many copies of Southern Living scattered about my household.

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Conklin, of Daleville, is a manager in the technology industry.

Young, alone — and in court

By Esther Cepeda

Last week, a federal judge in California ordered immigration courts in three states to provide legal representation for immigrants with mental disabilities who are in detention or facing deportation.

This happened the day after federal immigration officials issued a new policy that would effectively expand that ruling, making government-paid legal representation available to people with mental disabilities in immigration courts in all states.

This is a common-sense move to provide protection to the most vulnerable of a class of people — immigrants facing deportation — who don’t have the right to a lawyer if they can’t afford one.

Now that such an important precedent has been set, it is imperative that the government move quickly to ensure that minors get similar protections.

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Cepeda is a columnist with the Washington Post Writers Group.

Keep sexuality out of Scouting

By Jeff Powell

Re: “Nothing respectful or kind in anti-gay policy,” April 25:

I would like to expound upon what I believe as both a leader and parent in Scouts. As a parent, I believe that your sexuality is your personal choice and has no place within the Scouts, no matter what side you choose. I do not condone it, nor do I condemn it, as long as you keep your sexuality to yourself. It’s none of my business, and I am not going to seek you out and exploit it.

If the policy in Scouting changed, would it be OK for a homosexual to come to our Scout meeting and proclaim his sexual orientation? Do these young boys need to know this? Don’t they get enough on TV, at school, etc.? We would like our boys to be boys and enjoy “boy things.” They need a place where they are insulated from these complicated issues and can just have fun.

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Powell is co-den leader with Pack 229.

Follow the natural rule of magnetism

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By Robert Benne

In elementary school, the teacher would demonstrate the magnetic field of a magnet by putting iron filings on a paper right over the magnet. Sure enough, the filings would get ordered according to the pattern of the magnetic field of the magnet. I often use that homely example to illustrate what the Western tradition has meant by natural law.

The filings stand for us humans and the magnetic pattern represents natural law. Insofar as we abide by the magnetic field, we gather into peaceful, orderly patterns. Insofar as we don’t, we fall off the paper or wander aimlessly on the surface, bumping into each other randomly.

The analogy breaks down, of course, because we humans have the freedom to resist the patterns and go our own way.

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Benne lives in Salem.

Forcing mentally ill patients into treatment

By Elizabeth Strother

Dr. Fuller Torrey is not a gun-rights advocate. But he shares one view with those who fought and turned back federal gun control legislation in the aftermath of the Newtown massacre of schoolchildren:

Gun control would not do much to prevent another horror such as Newtown, Conn. — or Aurora, Colo., or Tucson, Ariz. Assertive mental health treatment would.

It’s likely, Torrey argues, that those recent mass shootings, like that of six years ago at Virginia Tech, occurred because people with severe mental illnesses did not get the treatment they needed. And they did not because a failed federal policy over the last 50 years closed too many state hospital beds in favor of community-centered treatment.

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Strother is an editorial writer for The Roanoke Times.

Nothing respectful or kind in anti-gay policy

By Jacqueline Watson

Our most recent Cub Scout Pack meeting has left me in a state of shock, bewilderment and anger.

We were entreated by our pack leader, through several texts and emails, to be sure to be at this meeting for an important discussion. Almost all of our core group of parents were in attendance. The topic of conversation, we discovered, was whether gays ought to be allowed in Scouting. I was so glad that we were going to be talking about this, anticipating that we’d be joining together in a stand for equal rights and an end to hateful discrimination.

I was sorely disappointed.

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Watson lives in Roanoke. She is a real estate appraiser and PTA volunteer.

America’s winning campaign for Roanoke’s children

Photo courtesy of the Roanoke Public Library A mother shares the love of reading with her two children in the Main Library Youth Services area.

Photo courtesy of the Roanoke Public Library
A mother shares the love of reading with her two children in the Main Library Youth Services area.

By Sheila S. Umberger

Winning the All-America City Award in 2012 was a thrilling and validating moment for residents of Roanoke, city employees and community leaders and businesses in our valley. Winning the award demonstrated how many wonderful and beneficial programs and initiatives we employ every day to enrich the lives of our residents.

A critical element in our historic sixth time winning this prestigious award from the National Civic League was the community collaboration, development and presentation of our All-America City Star City Reads Campaign. The goal of this campaign is to improve grade level reading by third grade in Roanoke.

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To learn more, visit libraryjunction.com/reads/

Umberger is director of libraries for Roanoke.

No place quite like Southwest Virginia

Courtesy of Wade Gilley Wade Gilley's great grandparents pictured in 1927 (or so) with their children in Hilltown, Carroll County.

Courtesy of Wade Gilley
Wade Gilley’s great grandparents pictured in 1927 (or so) with their children in Hilltown, Carroll County.

By Wade Gilley

Being a native Virginian with strong roots in Southwest Virginia, I read Jim Glanville’s Roanoke Times article a few months ago with great interest (“Western Virginia shaped America,” Sept. 13, 2012 commentary). He is right in saying that the western wedge of Virginia was a place that people traveled through to settle the nation, but many stopped and planted roots.

Looking back over the decades, I find Southwest Virginia to be a very dynamic place. For example, I grew up near Fries, which was founded at the turn of the 19th century by Col. Francis Fries, an American innovator who also founded Wachovia Bank and another planned city — Mayodan, N.C. He also built a railroad to connect Mayodan with Roanoke, the Roanoke and Southern Railway, which became the Norfolk and Western rail system in 1892.

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Gilley, a graduate of Virginia Tech, served as Virginia’s secretary of education under Gov. John Dalton and is the author of more than 20 books.

Tuesday, May 21, 2013

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