2009.04.21
21APR09--Yogurt and Perception
Just the other day, my Iraqi Army counterpart told me an Iraqi expression: "Eat what you like but wear what everyone else likes."
He shared this phrase with me after a discussion on food. He had offered to share some of a recent batch of shaneineh, a original flavored yogurt substance. I expressed that I had tried some previously and thanked him.
The Iraqi officer asked if we had shaneineh or yogurt in the States and thoroughly explained what he believes to be its health benefits. I explained that we have yogurt and went on to describe the fruit flavors in the 8 ounce cups and smoothies.
My counterpart scoffed at my description of yogurt that Americans commonly eat, responding "American food is so sugary and sweet." I continued to describe the different kinds of fruit that is usually mixed with yogurt, and then I asked him, "Would you like me to bring you some from the American base?"
The Iraqi's hands and eyebrows shot up, motioning as if we were talking about someone behind their back and he just walked in the room and it was time to end the conversation. As I chuckled, he leaned in to me and said, "I want to share an old Iraqi saying with you. 'Eat what you like but wear what everyone else likes.' Do you say this in the States?"
I responded, "I have not heard that exact saying, but to a lesser extent, we live by it too. For example, businessmen are expected to wear ties, even though it is a rather pointless article of clothing."
"Exactly," responded my Iraqi counterpart. "When we cover our heads, and our women cover their bodies, this is not because we like it, but rather, because this is how we live. What we eat affects no one but ourselves, but out of respect for everyone, we must present ourselves how others expect."
Such an incredibly insight conversation. I think that I will bring him strawberry yogurt in the coming days.
